a book by Ernesto Baron

New Intelligence of the 21st Century
emotional intelligence and  intellective intelligence
What is the new intelligence of the 21st Century
Where do I start to resolve my psychological states?

To elucidate and dissipate with sincerity that which we have in our mind, as well as to know why we feel or why we behave in one way or another, is truly essential in our life. However, in order to achieve this, we need to know for certain whether our feelings are true or false, this is a conscious and ethical procedure, which combines the mind and soul. Without this mind-heart combination, it would be very difficult to find concrete and lasting solutions.

How can we be emotionally tranquil?

For this reason, we certainly believe that to undo these emotional knots, which leave a deep imprint in our sentiments, would be the only path to tranquillity and calmness. Yet, we should also know that this has a process of clarification and in order to achieve it we require a great deal of comprehension, as well as profound dialogue. Only thanks to this great effort, will we be led by emotional intelligence to achieve permanent consistency, which is indispensable.

How do we not lose heart when faced with mistaken emotions?

If for some reason, these misunderstandings occur anyway, we should always try to differentiate between correct and mistaken emotions. We insist that in no way should we give up the virtue of fighting to make an effort, which should always have more force than anything negative that subtly or openly wants to ensnare us. Although jokes, sarcasm and irony try to hinder the healthy communication that we aim for, above all Ôthe voice of the heartÕ should prevail in our relationships.

You are what the profound desire that impels you is
And as is your desire, so is your will;

And as is your will, so are your deeds;

And as are your deeds, so is your destiny

Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5.

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